How it was such a huge mistake to go back to his place only after one night. If she doesn’t her back from him at all, for a couple weeks or more, then yes it’s almost definite he’s not interested in her at all.
If he calls back drunk after that time – then he either just wanted sex and remembered you – or he’s feeling bad because he really liked you but got scared. And those high quality men will show their interest by paying very close attention to you in every sense of the word.
She doesn’t allow any sex to happen and decides to call it an evening.
He played it perfectly…he didn’t waste any time messaging back and forth and get her phone number quickly. The only thing she bothered to mention was that he was “good-looking,” made good eye contact and asked a lot of questions. He made her feel comfortable enough (after only a few messages and one date) to go back up to his place.
Now what about her – she “notices” he’s online a few times.
And it will seem longer to you than it does to someone else. It’s not 100% that just because a man does not contact you as quickly as you’d like is not a guarantee he’s not interested.
Quality men (and I use that term loosely) are NOT going to come out and say it early on but the signs are always there… Never expect a guy to consider a relationship of any kind in one or two weeks – because, and I know you already know this – those are the guys you don’t want anyways.