Because of this subconscious dynamic, she was struggling to find love.
She was afraid that the men she would meet would ask too much of her.
We call this your "Love Imprint."Your "Love Imprint" is determined by how you learned to receive love from your parents, sibling, grandparents, and anyone else who was crucial in your upbringing.
We have discovered that the subconscious process of choosing a partner is highly influenced by your family of origin.Pheromones were discovered in silk worms, who emitted them during a mating dance.This process has also been researched in mice, pigs, hamsters, and fish.We try on different shapes and strategies until we are all twisted up and can no longer recognize that infant who embodied unconditional love. As we grow, we quickly discover that love is conditional in some way.We must behave a certain way in order to get the love that we require.